Kerry Manley

I met Kevin's mother Kerry some months after meeting her son and quickly learnt what a special lady she was. She wrote her Personal Story and was discussing it with Lucie and Sarah, but was unsure whether she wanted to be filmed. 

One evening Sarah called and asked whether she could cancel a trip away as Kerry had changed her mind about filming - but she was very nervous. I told Sarah she had to drop whatever else she had planned and meet with Kerry. They spent the morning with Jon filming one long interview and wow! Kerry was a natural. Some of the things she talked about still bring tears to my eyes.

Kerry is one special lady and has remained a good friend. She has been through so much with Kevin's addiction and her resulting problems. It has been so good to see the impact of Kevin's recovery on his mother. But all her problems did not go away as soon as Kevin stopped taking drugs. It has taken a good deal  of time for Kerry to get to where she is today.

This is Kerry's Story.  

Kevin Manley

I first met Kevin two years ago after he had stopped using drugs. There was something about him which I couldn't quite put my finger on. It was an inner peace, something special. Of course, given his previous drug-using career, he potentially had some struggles ahead of him as he moved along his path of recovery. But there was this calm.

Our film-maker Jonathan Kerr-Smith and Lucie made a 35-minute film, which included his mother Kerry, that describes parts of Kevin's life. I am very proud of this Wired In film and it greatly moved me. Since then, I have been able to watch Kevin move along his path of recovery, and we have shared some special moments together. He is a special friend to my young children.

Kevin has been a Wired In volunteer for the past two years and I am confident that he has much to contribute to this field. This is his Personal Story.

Why are Personal Stories important?

The experiences and views of people who have 'been there' are critical for our understanding of addiction and recovery. Personal Stories of people who have been affected by substance use problems, either directly or indirectly via their loved ones, are important for:

• Inspiring and motivating people affected by substance use problems
  
• Understanding how the harms caused by substances and the substance-using lifestyle can be reduced
  
• Providing insights into how recovery from addiction can be achieved
  
• Improving the commissioning and delivery of treatment and other support services in the community
  
• Raising awareness and tackling prejudice amongst the general public.